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馬來西亞NTV7本地華語連續劇

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NTV7晚间九点半通常都会播放本地华语连续剧,然後在十一点播放港剧。

过去两年我都有陪家人看九点半的本地剧(有时是新加坡剧)和十一点的港剧,所以不经意为本地剧和港剧的比较。

我觉得本地连续剧论剧情和演技,都比港剧精彩得多。譬如林宇中主演的法律剧,论剧情和演员的演技,都比谢天华杨怡主演的那套法律剧好得多。然後有套比较新的本地华语剧《分身乏术》,也拍得非常感人,尤其是结局时少女演员演出对那老人若隐若现的爱,真的令我印象深刻

廣告: 網絡文章評選 - 如何通過自慰提高性生活質量

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在网络上读到这篇文章: 如何通过自慰提高性生活质量

关于改善“射的太快”这方面,我没试过文章所说的方法,而且我认为,有必要这么麻烦吗?

我的方法就没这么麻烦,简单直接有效,你试过就知道了。按这里可读我之前分享的经验。



Confucius is Prophet

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The following is my answer to "Why God did not send prophets to China"

God did send Prophets to China. Many. Fu Xi 伏羲, Zhou Wen Wang 周文王, Kong Zi 孔子(Confucius) are Prophets.

The reason you're asking this question is because you put a narrow definition to the word Prophet. You version of Prophet is from the Abrahamic religions.

Prophet simply means the one who is able to experience Divine's consciousness and is able to receive the divine messages from God.

Remember, God's teachings vary in different places.

Confucianism stresses the importance of Humanity rather than God because the way to become a better human is also the way to glorify God. (Heaven in Confucianism context)

Confucianism & Political System

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Today I want to talk about one of my favourite topic - Confucianism. 

Confucius has always been my spiritual guide.

Confucianism says that there is only goodness in human.  There's no "sin" in us. We've given the Love from God (Tian 天、Tai Ji 太极), which is also our naturally born conscience.  

Confucianism says that the capable ones are going to be leader eventually, regardless whatever political system they're in. This is the law of nature.  Because God arranged the path for them to become the leaders. Confucianism is always about to go back to the Law of nature, which is the divine law of God.

According to Confucianism, leaders have great responsibility to the people they lead. Leaders have heavy duties to perform. Leaders themselves have to lead by example. In return their followers will pay respect to them. So it's a two way thing.

Leaders have to always stay humble all the time because God is there watching all human. God is all that is. Staying …

Ads: Cut the crap of English-is-Everything

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My company is hiring.

Benefits: 1.5 month of contractual bonus which is paid to you monthly. Insurance coverage for yourself and family members. Parking allowance is RM260 per month and it is more than enough. Data Line allowance is RM88 per month and they're talking about an adjustment to RM149 but not sure when will that happen. Employer's contribution on EPF is 14% after you finish your probation. The rest are standard stuff like claim for spectacles, dental treatment and blar blar.

Work Culture: I'm not sure about other departments. IT department is quite slow paced. Office is always 90% empty before 6pm. Once i stayed up till 6.30pm and i had a feeling that it was already 11pm or midnight. Not a place for those who love loads and loads of challenges.

My company is USA-based with offices around the world. Sometimes teleconference can be as early as 5 or 6am which is around 4 or 5pm Mountain Standard Time in USA. Sometimes it can be as late as 11pm which i…

廣告: 與美姐Anjoe Koh面對面时。。。

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与美姐面对面,你能做什么呢?

凡是女人都爱打扮,可是偏偏并非每个女人都知道如何正确的装扮自己。
 有些人,明明不适合传窄裙,却从来不知道自己不适合穿窄裙。当她悉心打扮後,发现到没人对她惊艳後,感到很不解很心酸。其实,有时只要她选对服装,往往就可以扭转乾坤,从平淡无奇的小女人变成气质高贵的大美女。

所以,对时尚的了解不深,就会出现以上的问题。

那你对时尚的了解有多深呢?

聚会当天,Anjoe会亲自为大家讲解,如何穿出自我,用正确的打扮方式来彰显自己的优点。Anjoe本身是选美冠军,经过不少严格的时尚培训,接触不少的时尚专家,一路走来,Anjoe本身已经成了时尚的活字典。她肯抽空与你分享这些宝贵之事,你,如果是女人,绝对要珍惜!

还有,如果你关心Anjoe的前程,想知道她是否会像2003年和2009年Astro国际华裔小姐冠军杨秀惠还是陈美豫般往香港主持界与电视台发展,还是会像2011年Astro国际华裔小姐冠军林家冰、殿军温慧茵、2012年冠军陈楚寰般在大马发展,最绝对不能错过这次的聚会。你可以了解到,当选为美姐後的出路有多广,还有一些选美的内幕等等。

Anjoe越来越红,越来越忙了!以後要找她都难啊!你千万要抓着这次的机会哦!

请请请你尽快联系 Evonne Kho 0189033956(只收电话和短讯SMS)。

主办者会当场向出席者收费作为Anjoe礼物的费用。

日期: 28/06/2015
时间: 6:00 PM
收费: RM30
地点:  
Sweet Hut

B-27-G, Jalan C180/1, Dataran C180, Batu Cheras, Selangor 43200 Cheras

雜志《品牌與連鎖》作品: 馬來西亞博彩業三大品牌

马来西亚虽以穆斯林国民为多数,但由于建国领袖决定以英殖民威敏寺制度来执政,加上非穆斯林人数其实也不微,所以大马算是很世俗的国家,不会太过强调伊斯兰化。

大马首任首相成长于皇室之家,自小受英国教育熏陶,作风很英国化。当时,国内宗教氛围尚未浓,马来文版圣经也没被禁。这位首相破天荒发了国内唯一一张赌场执照给云顶高原集团老板-已故林梧桐先生,间接令这位大马一代赌场大亨发迹,也令政府的税收暴增,那笔数目在尚无石油收入的日子,可是举足轻重。政府因云顶赌牌而食髓知味,接着发出一张又一张的测字博彩执照,继续靠博彩税来填充国库,“利益人民”。单是从多多哪里抽到的税,每年就有整四五亿。

也因此,大马国民赌客非常幸运,他们的赌博选择众多,除了上云顶高原赌场外,不能上山时也可买万字过过瘾,只差没法天天赌。非穆斯林为之疯狂,一些穆斯林也为之着迷(国内有穆斯林买万字可非鲜听到的事)。赌客得到娱乐,博彩公司也赚不停,然后政府继续抽那8%的彩池税,皆大欢喜。

马来西亚共有三个测字博彩品牌,分别为万能、多多、与大马彩。其实东马另有沙拉越马会、万利和山打根马会,但他们的业务只集中于东马,所以不为半岛民众所熟悉。这些万字博彩执照也是由首任首相阿都拉曼所颁发。数十年下来,国内几乎每一个大街小巷都可见到三大测字博彩公司的招牌。不过,一般人士要开分行,就须从财政部手上拿到“万字连锁店”执照,而这申请过程还真的难如登天,手续重重,难度堪比华裔从国家石油公司处拿到汽油零售站执照。

市面上还有许许多多无牌经营的大小万字博彩“公司”,他们以更佳的赔率,广流行于民间。由于开采成绩是跟着有牌的公司,这些无牌万字博彩业经营者可说是在经营着无本生意。据说还夺走了三大正牌万字博彩公司的市场。所以,三大正牌都不把持牌的对方为最主要对手,反而是地下万字厂才是他们的眼中钉。

万能
万能是国内首家获颁四字(4D)万字博彩执照的公司,短短两年内就于西元1970年上市,目前的最大股东为马化控股。众所周知,马化控股是本国华人政治大党-马华公会所创办的投资臂膀,不过,经历八十年代党争后,马化控股的主人从马华公会转为传说中与安华关系密切的林添杰,直至安华上世纪98年失势后,林氏方退出马化控股。

身为高盈利的公司,万能自是与政治脱离不了关系。目前的公正党头号领袖,也就是前首相的安华的多年网球球伴纳拉卡鲁班曾任万能执行董事,其当时的老板正是林添杰。…

The True Form of Fasting

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Here is how fasting works: 

When God tells you to stop eating, you will know its a message from God. There is no doubt at all. The message is very very clear. 

Throughout the fasting process, you will not feel hungry. You will not suffer at all because you don't feel hungry or feel uncomfortable. This is only when you fast according to God's order. 

When do you break? Very easy, either you receive God's order, or you start eating when you start feeling hungry again. Yes it is that simple, because eating when hungry is the the natural way. God will never not mean to make us suffer. God will never want us to go against the nature, for nature laws are God's creation. 

Wrong way of fasting is, you intentionally get into standby mode before fasting or before breaking. Stop doing that, because once u start doing that, you are not fasting for God, you think about your interest. Your intention to fast hence becomes impure. 

In the true way of fasting, there is no room for prepa…

廣告: 与美姐共聚!

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你想要与Astro国际华裔小姐冠军兼国际中华小姐非常非常近距离的接触吗?

我友人举办了一场“与美姐共聚”的聚会,以庆祝美姐得到2014年Astro国际华裔小姐冠军!

这位美姐是谁呢?对了,就是Anjoe Koh 许愫恩!Anjoe如今也是Astro艺人哦!她曾主持Astro2015年的倒数活动。

这个是难得的机会。我友人可花了不少心思才争取到Anjoe抽时间出席这场聚会。

由于场地所限和安全因素,所以名额有限。因此,如果你想在这场聚会与美姐面对面交谈,或跟美姐拍照,等等等,请请请你尽快联系 Evonne Kho 0189033956(只收电话和短讯SMS)。

主办者会向出席者收费作为Anjoe礼物的费用。

日期: 28/06/2015
时间: 6:00 PM
收费: RM30
地点:  
Sweet Hut
B-27-G, Jalan C180/1, Dataran C180, Batu Cheras, Selangor 43200 Cheras

淺談中國土豪現象與儒家對策

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我特从书里抽出这段与众分享。书尚未写毕,希望八月可完稿,十月出版。为我加油吧!

所分享之文字如下:

中国自改革开放以来,经济突飞猛进,“生下”为数众多的“土豪”,“先让部分人富起来”的策略圆满完成,剩下的是让所有人富起来。土豪是富人,不过并非每位富人都是土豪。土豪是带有“乡土”味的富人。所谓的“乡土味”其实主要指的还是土豪们一身的乡下习惯,时而随地吐痰,时而大声喧哗,时而凭有钱而不愿排队,时而挥金如土。土豪活在消费至上的资本主义社会,是可以活得非常好非常舒服的,不过土豪与传统的富人相比,两者同样有钱,但还是有些“地位不均等”。有些富人如乔布斯和比尔盖茨或李嘉诚等往往是普罗大众的“偶像”,许多杂志书本都很喜欢访问研究这些富人,而人人也喜欢向他们学习致富秘诀。所以,他们不仅富有,还获得多人的尊重。至于土豪虽富,却因一身的乡土习惯而赢不到尊重,国际公民社会的人往往对其自持有钱而不遵守公民秩序而看不过眼,故有人以土豪称之,来区别其他比较有“现代”涵养的富人。

发生这种事,有时这是大环境的影响,非土豪之罪。要知道中国在改革开放之前,曾经历了十年文化大革命,一个人活在文化大革命时期,本来一切身心都奉献给了文化大革命的“正确价值观”,但突然间政府说要“改革开放”,引进资本主义世界来的资金,政策突然一百八十度转换,踏上资本主义的路,价值观彻彻底底有别于文化大革命时期。文化大革命时期革走了传统价值观的命,所以踏入改革开放时期的中国人,根本已经是价值观混乱,而可说是在身处摸索期,尽力保护自己的利益,免为他人所欺负。

所以,复兴儒家的好处,在于为大家带来的“礼”。你我无须学习所谓的公民社会规范。因为孔子最最最推崇的礼已经很足够应付现代城市公民社会所需了。前人唾弃礼的核心精神,使礼变成一条条的教条,丧事生气与活力,最后整个社会因活在恐惧中,渐渐堕落,乃至不堪抵抗西方资本主义文明的魔力。你我要做的就是避免步上前人后尘。

一理通萬理、一教通萬教

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今夜听印度教师尊开示,竟令我在儒学上有所领悟,真是“一理通万里、一教通万教”。亦是孔圣所谓的“吾道一以贯之”。

兼得以从中获得灵感,写入我的书内,非常开心。

我还问师尊两个藏在心中数年却一直解不通的敏感问题:

一)旧约圣经里的上帝为何不仁慈,因人拜金牛而震怒。要如何看待。

二)穆圣为何下令人摧毁天房内的偶像。

我曾往基督教和回教读物视频等寻找这两个问题的答案,却无法令我满意。

师尊所给的答案不仅令我疑惑全消,其答案还完全无损这两教的声誉。

非常感恩。

我只能说,解经典要解得准,一定要用心来解。

感谢上天给予我这经验。

Malaysian in Globalization Era

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Today one of my teammate in Europe was making fun of me. He's asking if I am robot or some kind of AI product. We've never really met each other face to face. I've been asked a few times to meet my teammates in Europe but I have some personal constraints so I couldn't go. So far all communications between us are done via instant messaging, phone & email.

Anyway, since I'm the only one from the team who works in Asian time zone, to me going to office is just waste of petrol and commute time as I rarely open my mouth in office. 

Globalization era. Jobs can be done everywhere. Companies can deploy their workforces at any corner in the world. Good news is we as employee have more choices in terms of job opportunities, bad news is we can also lose our jobs at any time. So before we master the techniques to get help from the Supreme One, I'll suggest that we must cultivate the habit of saving.
We still have advantages though: languages and time zo…

Divine Message on 11th June 2015 - Spritiual Evolution

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When we were very very young, we don't really know if we are praying or not. And when we've grown up we don't even remember that praying moment because we are unsure if we were really praying.

As we grow older, we start to have needs and wants. And usually we pray to God for our "wants".

As we continue praying for our wants, we will eventually come to a stage where we'd like to express our gratitude to God for giving what we want. So in this case we will have idols as "target" for us to offer physical items such as flowers and fruits and etc to express our gratitude. At this stage still we will continue to pray with "wants" in our mind.

Until one day we pray to God without any want, at that moment we are already deeply connected with God. It's a state of Total Surrender. At that time we don't really need idols anymore. We don't even need to pray physically because we are already praying all the time since we are …

萬達酒店鉆苑中餐廳 Zuan Yuan @ One World Hotel

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我办公室位于万达酒店隔壁。我如果是泊在万达广场内,上下班都会取道该酒店来回办公室,而且还时常经过钻苑­酒家。




某次马来西亚讲华语运 动想要办执委新年聚会,执委四处寻找有私人房间的中餐馆,有这种"设备"的中餐馆非常­难找,最终找到一家,即钻苑也。我身为副主席,又跟钻苑近在咫尺, 所以也有去钻苑询问一番。钻苑的私人套房­设备实在难得,而且只须预订就可以了,并且无须为房间付费,订房也不以花费价格来为条件。

地点方面,万达商场乃国内数一数二的大型商场,广为人知,所座落的地点交通便利,驱车前来非常方便。当然,­那些在吉隆坡东边地区的人要驾车前来此处确实距离颇远。一旦尚在建设中的轻快铁站准备就绪可载送人后,那交­通会更加方便了。

就 如其他酒店一样,钻苑是万达酒店里的唯一中餐馆,而且也是清真的。这在马来西亚很正常,目前国内许多酒店­的中餐馆都已"清真化"了。可是,钻苑的菜肴还 是色香味齐全,完全不受清不清真影响。我曾吃过数间酒店的中­餐馆,也是清真菜肴,味道真的比钻苑差得远。在钻苑无论是烤鸡也好、各种菜蔬也好,都吃得出 厨师的用心。

在钻苑内的三小时半,服务生不时都来房看看我们有什么需要,一面也为食客添茶水,服务可谓非常周到。而且,­房内似乎有静音效果,我们在厢房内讨论东西,声音都未传出外头。而外头的嘈杂声也没干扰到房内众人。

钻苑食物好吃,服务又周到,价钱应该不菲吧?又不会。我们八人点了六道菜,才共花费四百多元左右,以豪华级­酒店中餐馆又订房间而言,已不算贵了。当然,如果拿钻苑所介绍的新年套餐,共八样菜,价格大概是整千元,由­于都是比较珍贵的食材,也不算太贵。

太平拉律馬登小販中心炒魚丸粿條麵 Fried Fishball KueyTeowMee @ Larut Matang Hawker Center Taiping

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余上怡保,趁机再上太平走走,先去著名的太平湖看看。日正当中,热气腾腾,大树、青草和湖水降不了暑气。

太平湖适合喜欢大自然的人,不适合爱热闹爱人潮的人。有家庭者可考虑来此处野餐。不过最好是逢傍晚才来,比较没那么热。

看完太平湖,饥肠辘辘,去拉律马登小贩中心用膳。

这是余第二回来此处享用美食。第一次来时是晚间,许多档包括著名的63号已休息,应该是只做午市。

这回是午间,全部档都有开,人潮好多。太平街上静静的,而此处简直是另一个世界。仿佛所有人都挤到这里来了。

找到了63号,在附近坐下,点了鱼丸炒粿条。排队打包的人好多。我还真怕帮我点菜的那人忘了我的那份。後来发现到他虽没写下来,但是他另有方法记,就是事先备好辣椒碟。厉害!

其实,鱼丸炒粿条麵要真说起来也没什么特别。就是有鱼丸和叉烧作佐料。不过粿条不像是炒,反而像干捞多点,但我确实看到老板是用炒的方式来煮粿条。粿条看起来油得发亮,可能是放了许多油去炒吧?

鱼丸炒粿条麵吃起来还是觉得很不错。香味四溢,可能有加入猪油吧!难怪如此出名。

隔几档的65号档口也很闻名。卖的都是饮料。我从智能手机某软件得知该档以“虎加狮”闻名,就以闽南语问档主何谓“虎加狮”。档主没直接回答,只说包好喝!

喝了。果然不错。原来是很普遍的NESLO而已,不过真的泡得很浓厚很好喝。

虎代表雀巢咖啡,狮代表著名巧克力饮料美禄(MILO)。不知哪个家伙想出了“虎加狮”这个名堂。就像新山和新加坡人称美禄为“踢球”一样。非常有趣。








廣告: 華孝英雄(華Xiao英雄)的笑點

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很快的,这套戏今天就在本地各院线上映了。

这戏有许多好笑的环节,都是靠关德辉的那张严肃脸来支撑着,有冷笑话的味道。

至于类似其他笑戏的胡闹情节,也是有,不过我感觉不会太过严重。

不过,真的要称赞朱咪咪这位老戏骨。她一出现,这套戏就得到更多的笑声。

关德辉先生要以搞笑的方式来上演华校的故事,真的不简单。因为华校课题是很严肃的课题。