星期四, 七月 09, 2015

哥文寧巨人霸級市場內的李伯咖啡店 Pak Li Kopitiam @ Giant Hypermarket Kemuning

此咖啡店店位于Kemuning区的巨人霸级市场(Giant Hypermarket)。

到了这里,只见人潮汹涌,座无虚席。虽属于新式咖啡店,看看菜单,比较价钱,似乎却比某些"名牌"新式咖啡­­店便宜许多。

譬如咖啡冰(冷奶咖啡),名牌咖啡店都卖至少三块多,这里才买两块二左右,而且味道真的很不错,非常划算。

这里的烤面包也才块多钱而已,那些名牌咖啡店又何止是这种价钱?

我还点了黄金炒饭和海南鸡排。黄金炒饭很香,分量不会少。海南鸡排虽然并非最好吃,但也绝对不差。

服务员的态度还算彬彬有礼,看得出有训练过,店主可谓放了不少心思。

其实,类似这样"亲民"的新式咖啡店实在少见,市面上多由各类"名牌"咖啡店所垄断,随便一吃,就二三十元­­。这间食物味道不错,服务也很好,值得帮衬。





星期三, 七月 08, 2015

萬達商場“馬六甲角落” Melaka Corner @ One Utama Shopping Center

我在万达商场处的办公大楼上班。由于寒舍离公司远达三十二公里,须驾上好一段路才能到家,而且尚须经过重重­"车龙"阵,故我下班後往往不直接回家,而是先在万达商场内喝一下茶,看看一下商场形形色色的男男女女,才­欣欣然取车回家去。

我最常到的一间喝茶地点就是Melaka Corner。我选这间是由于其本土咖啡实在一流,还胜过某些著名的连锁本土咖啡店。而且我热爱本土咖啡更­胜于卖弄外型花俏的外国咖啡。我向来觉得外国咖啡品牌的Americano还是不能与本土的咖啡屋抗衡。

Melaka Corner的奶咖啡和咖啡乌都很好喝,香浓之极,即闽南语所谓的"厚"。价钱方面也比本土咖啡品牌连锁店­便宜几毛钱。我也试过其奶茶,也很浓很好喝,可是商场内尚有另一家的奶茶比之更香浓,甚至加便宜!

Melaka Corner位处商场的走廊边。在此可以一边喝茶一边看路过的商场客。有时可以看到许多有趣的人,而热爱美­女的人更是有眼福,打扮得花枝招展的美女不时都会路过此处。所以在这里喝茶,可以提神的不仅是茶水,"眼水­"亦可提神。哈哈。

至于这间店的食物,都是卖些娘惹糕点、经济米粉、暹罗米粉、经济面、油条等等的传统咖啡店食物,都不是先煮­的,而是外面弄好送过来卖的。价钱可谓不菲,因为商场内某一处贩卖同样的东西,价钱却便宜一倍!

正餐时间,在Melaka Corner可看见许多顾客点"亚叁拉刹",我曾吃过,觉得不错,但并不算惊为天人,可能是因为我本身也并­不是特别喜欢亚叁拉刹这种食物。

我想跟老板说不好意思,你的咖啡和茶是很好喝,但食物有点贵。我往往在附近买食物,再于此处点你的茶水,希­望你不要介意。哈哈。

星期二, 七月 07, 2015

The Power of Blessing



The truth about blessings is, there is nothing to bless us with. There is nothing to bless us for. We already are blessed Divine souls here. So what else is there to bless? Nothing. You feel you need blessings because you feel that you are unable to accomplish your needs and wants.

You are feeling incomplete because you do not know that you are blessed. Do you know when you can get the greatest blessing in Life? It is when you realize that you are already blessed.
When you realize that you are already blessed and that you have received the blessing, you will not seek more blessings and now you are as complete as you can be. You will realize there is nothing more to seek for. That is the power of blessings. Where does the power of blessings come from? From you, it is already in you. Realize this and you will realize that there is no need to seek something out there from the great Divine when you already have it.

So when you come and ask for blessings, what are you doing? You are asking for the removal of ignorance. You are asking for the removal of the thought process that makes you believe that you are not blessed, that you are not worthy to receive success. It is the Divine who is giving you the energy to remove your ignorance.

...

When you get this realization, you have received the greatest blessings in Life. When you know that you have already been blessed, you will realize in that stillness of gratitude, love, and grace of God, that God is within you, for you.

You will know.

What do you do next with this realization? Now you need to enhance that energy, by praising God. Allow Him to guide you. Why? Simple, if He knows how to create you, if He knows how to bless you, if He knows how to put you in all successive happiness, and if He is with you, it is ridiculous to walk a path without Him or with Him following us. It is also ridiculous to walk a path with Him beside us. It is only right for us to walk a path with Him leading us. That is why we call Him the Good Shepherd.

That is all you have to do.

Know that you are blessed. Know that you are already blessed with success and to be continuously successful. Know that you can achieve anything that you wish for, in this world. You pray for God’s energy to come to you, so that you can achieve something, because you believe that God’s energy empowers you to achieve anything. You know it is a done deal. You just need to intent, and it will be done.

That is why the realization of blessing is the greatest blessing that you can ever receive. Be happy with what you already have and be thankful to be given all those. Most importantly, be thankful that you are able to realize the blessings that you have. Life is, after all, simple.

- Swami Guru Sri Kriyathasa Sekar-

星期五, 七月 03, 2015

怡保南香 Nam Heong @ Ipoh

怡保食物以白咖啡闻名。余有机会到此数日,其中一日的午饭就在南香解决。

南香据说是怡保白咖啡之老祖宗。不过,又有人说新源隆才是正宗的白咖啡。不过,请你放心,南香和新源隆,其实都是面对面而已。你可以在同一个地方品尝这两间店的白咖啡。

店内有几个档口,余不知什么好吃,随便点了干咖喱面,有叉烧等佐料,味道只是中中。

比较显眼的是靠近柜台处有卖蛋挞等点心。许多人来排队“打包”带走。很销。所以也点了几粒蛋挞,还有叉烧酥。蛋挞的确好软好吃,不过比起平常所吃到的好像没胜过太多。倒是叉烧酥更令人惊艳,很香很酥脆。

至于白咖啡,则不必说,必点!由于日正当中,闽南语所谓“日头炎”,余就反常点了冰冻白咖啡。哇,喝起来真的很浓厚,很好喝。








不要宗教糾紛,很簡單



不要宗教纠纷,很简单:

1) 承认所有圣人教的都是真理。
承认佛陀教的是真理。承认耶稣教的是真理。承认穆罕穆德教的是真理。还有各古今多位圣人,教的通通是真理。

承认不同宗教是寻得真理的不同之路。

2) 把现有的宗教教条和〔半神话故事〕通通废除掉。

诸如谁谁的故事是假的,谁谁的故事才是真的,所以我才是正统,云云。还要应该穿什么、应该吃什么。这些通通废掉。

3) 保留各宗教的〔修炼〕方法,如祷告、礼拜、诵经、静坐等等。

4) 任何人都可以选择他们所想要的修炼方式。

星期四, 七月 02, 2015

廣告:在中國留學會促進事業發展的4個原因

此文非我所撰,乃借出空间打广告。希望能帮到那些正考虑深造的学子。 

此文来自Easyuni 学子可以多上这里看看。

 
欧洲委员会在这个月的研究里证明了在外国留学的好处。这个伊拉斯谟影响研究(Erasmus Impact Study)专注于迁移对于学生技能和受聘率的影响以及高等教育机构的国际化。这个研究显示了国外留学和受聘率有着密切的关系。

流动学生包括了那些在外国参加语言课程或文化课程的学生。上个星期,我们聊了关于学习中文的好处。然而这个研究显示,在中国学习中文对学生也有额外的好处。在中国留学并不只是提升你的语言能力。就如这个研究所强调的,在外国留学还可以提高学生在毕业后的受聘率。世界各地都面对着极高的失业率,这反而说服了那些正在考虑国外留学的学生和家长。

伊拉斯谟的影响研究是由一个联盟所准备的。联盟里包含了德国的CHE-Consult,布鲁塞尔的教育服务,Compostela大学集团和Erasmus Student Network所组成的。研究对象包括了接近80,000个来自于34个不同国家的学生、毕业生、高等教育机构、工作人员和就业者等。这个研究让我们发掘了很多关于国外留学和国际化高等教育的好处和影响。

我们已经无数次听闻,中国即将超越美国的国内生产总值(GDP)和购买力平价(PPP),也会成为新的世界大国。过去的五年来,中国的经济已经成长了超过7%。中国是世界上经济发展最快的国家,也是人口最密集的国家。那些对环境永续、商业管理、医疗保健等感兴趣的学生,应该考虑这个世界经济中心。这些经济上的强项让中国成为一个很适合工作和留学的地方。在这里,我们了解了此研究并且用它来分析中国留学。这就是四个你应该到中国留学的原因。

1. 文化敏感培训



在国外念书、受训、工作,甚至是参加自愿服务的其中一个好处,就是让你更加了解异国的文化和习俗。在国外念书可以让你完全的融入新文化,也是一个最严苛的文化敏感训练。这个经验会让你体验家里以外的人生体验。 在国外留学的日子可以让你亲身体验新文化,所面对的挣扎都会让你更快熟悉他人的文化。在你体验更多新事物的同时,你的适应能力也会开始提升。除此之外,比起其他待在舒适地带的学生,你也会有更高的适应能力,也能够提高你熟悉其他文化的能力。

中国拥有超过56种民族文化。不同的区域也拥有着不同种类的传统,宗教,习俗和白话。从书法、传统药方、自卫术甚至是京剧,中国拥有着丰富的文化遗产。在中国生活和念书会让你更加珍惜这些古老历史和跟随她的传统。例如,在中国云南的丽江市拥有很多不同的宗教。其中包含了佛教、伊斯兰教、道教、基督教,甚至是彝族人所信了上百年的毕摩教。在内蒙古,如果你在他们的家拒绝了主人所捧上来的米酒,是件很无礼的事。在中国,文化和礼仪是很被人们所重视的。所以在商务来往上,熟悉中国文化和习俗的候选人都会被优先考虑。

2. 培养优良的技巧



一个人的就业能力和个人发展都和国际经历有关,其中,高等教育学府更是扮演着重要的角色。83%的高等教育学府认为,巩固该校在国际学府地位的重要原因之一,就是要有能力提供学生到外地留学。雇主也认为,曾经出国留学的学生,有更好的团队精神、沟通能力、外语能力、分析能力、判决能力和组织能力。从各国不同的文化和习俗里,我们可以很清楚地看到出国留学提高了就业能力。

中国大学也着重于在职场里扮演着重要角色的技巧和观念。例如,医学系培养学生的人道主义、为别人牺牲自己的品德,还有关怀;同样的,大学也培养政治学和法律系学生的高尚品德,要成为一个公正和诚实的人。除了技巧和社交能力以外,大学也努力地培养学生的性格,例如良好的学习精神、勤奋、纪律、创新和谦虚。

目前职场所追求的就是这些技巧,尤其是那些与中国有交际的国家。实际上,Erasmus影响研究显示,国际迁移使得长期的失业率减半了;曾经在国外进修或受训的学生,失业率更是在五年后减少了23%。这个统计让国际经历成了令人无法抗拒的诱惑。

3. 提高国际经历



除了与普通的西方或亚洲大学的拥有合伙关系外,中国大学还有一个额外的好处。Erasmus的研究结果也可以用来推断在中国进修和实习的好处。拥有很多合伙大学关系的大学,能够让你体会更多的国际经历。身为中国大学的学生,你将有机会到另一个国家的高等学府里学习一个学期至一年的时间。如此一来,你的国际经历会提高了,更会让你成为一个优良的雇员。

此外,中国是其中一个拥有强大的经济能力和稳定成长的国家。几乎每个大型的跨国公司都想要和中国进行交易。中国是世界上最大的输出国。在这个经济发达的国家里留学的话,学生可以让自己有更多的机会接触到大型国际公司。这其中更是包括了那些在北京和上海,建立了亚洲总公司的国际公司。在中国念书会给学生创造实习和就业的机会,更是学生事业里重要的起点。

4. 提高就业能力



很多原因造成了迁移性的学生拥有更高的就业能力。其中一个原因,是国外留学提供了学生实习和短期工作。研究报告显示,在每三名Erasmus学生中,都有一名学生是被实习公司或短期工作的公司所聘请的。此外,国外实习也对学生的在事业上的软技能发挥着很重要影响。他们也能够协助你了解中国的贸易文化和环境。学习中文可以给你提供更多的选择。所以,在中国进修是学习中文最好的办法。这个技能也可以使得你在中国或是其他国家里找到工作,主要是因为你了解超于两个国家的贸易文化。除此之外,新加坡、香港、马来西亚等国家也拥有庞大的华人人口,并且也与中国有频繁的生意来往。事实上,在中国的体验不只会开启你在中国发展的机会,它也会帮助你到其他想要与中国来往生意的国家发展,甚至可以帮你成为一个企业家。

此文来自Easyuni 学子可以多上这里看看。
(图取自网络)

專注寫書



由于想尽快于年尾前出版新书,我自四月起就停止写评论登在报纸上了。

我觉得还是专注一点比较好。

我写此书估计已有一年多。白天要办公,晚上才能写上一二小时,实在不容易。

而且写此书要需要搜集许多资料,甚至阅读消化众多文章书籍,哇,真的无法想象这一年来怎么过。感谢上天!

期间,我也一面写书,一面实践书内所分享的方法,最近的一项成就竟然神奇的“赶走"了上司,使我获得百分百的自由,而且我上司是走得心甘情愿,开开心心的走的,我从没对他做过什么,我只是做我的方法而已。

目前我感觉好像回到了旧公司。同事八点多早上就到公司,我十点半才姗姗来迟。因为上司已走了,新上司远在欧洲,他只问我工作进展,不问我几点进办公室。

这段过程真的很神奇,非常出乎我意料之外,我没想到我的方法会有这种效果,感谢上天!

我会在书内提到这段故事。当然,书内还有我其他的神奇事迹。

星期二, 六月 30, 2015

馬來西亞NTV7本地華語連續劇




NTV7晚间九点半通常都会播放本地华语连续剧,然後在十一点播放港剧。

过去两年我都有陪家人看九点半的本地剧(有时是新加坡剧)和十一点的港剧,所以不经意为本地剧和港剧的比较。

我觉得本地连续剧论剧情和演技,都比港剧精彩得多。譬如林宇中主演的法律剧,论剧情和演员的演技,都比谢天华杨怡主演的那套法律剧好得多。然後有套比较新的本地华语剧《分身乏术》,也拍得非常感人,尤其是结局时少女演员演出对那老人若隐若现的爱,真的令我印象深刻

廣告: 網絡文章評選 - 如何通過自慰提高性生活質量



在网络上读到这篇文章: 如何通过自慰提高性生活质量

关于改善“射的太快”这方面,我没试过文章所说的方法,而且我认为,有必要这么麻烦吗?

我的方法就没这么麻烦,简单直接有效,你试过就知道了。按这里可读我之前分享的经验。



星期五, 六月 26, 2015

Confucius is Prophet



The following is my answer to "Why God did not send prophets to China"

God did send Prophets to China. Many. Fu Xi 伏羲, Zhou Wen Wang 周文王, Kong Zi 孔子(Confucius) are Prophets.

The reason you're asking this question is because you put a narrow definition to the word Prophet. You version of Prophet is from the Abrahamic religions.

Prophet simply means the one who is able to experience Divine's consciousness and is able to receive the divine messages from God.

Remember, God's teachings vary in different places.

Confucianism stresses the importance of Humanity rather than God because the way to become a better human is also the way to glorify God. (Heaven in Confucianism context)

Confucianism & Political System



Today I want to talk about one of my favourite topic - Confucianism. 

Confucius has always been my spiritual guide.

Confucianism says that there is only goodness in human.  There's no "sin" in us. We've given the Love from God (Tian 天、Tai Ji 太极), which is also our naturally born conscience.  

Confucianism says that the capable ones are going to be leader eventually, regardless whatever political system they're in. This is the law of nature.  Because God arranged the path for them to become the leaders. Confucianism is always about to go back to the Law of nature, which is the divine law of God.

According to Confucianism, leaders have great responsibility to the people they lead. Leaders have heavy duties to perform. Leaders themselves have to lead by example. In return their followers will pay respect to them. So it's a two way thing.

Leaders have to always stay humble all the time because God is there watching all human. God is all that is. Staying humble is also very much aligned with the law of nature. If you're not against the law of nature, then yes you're on the right path and God will always take care of you.

So, democratic or not, does not really matter. There's no perfect system. Every system has flaws and can be misused for evil purpose. Most importantly, every individual must live the "Jun Zi 君子" out from them, and get rid of the "Xiao Ren 小人" that resides within themselves.

星期三, 六月 24, 2015

Ads: Cut the crap of English-is-Everything



My company is hiring.

Benefits: 1.5 month of contractual bonus which is paid to you monthly. Insurance coverage for yourself and family members. Parking allowance is RM260 per month and it is more than enough. Data Line allowance is RM88 per month and they're talking about an adjustment to RM149 but not sure when will that happen. Employer's contribution on EPF is 14% after you finish your probation. The rest are standard stuff like claim for spectacles, dental treatment and blar blar.

Work Culture: I'm not sure about other departments. IT department is quite slow paced. Office is always 90% empty before 6pm. Once i stayed up till 6.30pm and i had a feeling that it was already 11pm or midnight. Not a place for those who love loads and loads of challenges.

My company is USA-based with offices around the world. Sometimes teleconference can be as early as 5 or 6am which is around 4 or 5pm Mountain Standard Time in USA. Sometimes it can be as late as 11pm which is the morning in Phoenix. You can attend to these calls from anywhere.

Your boss could be someone in Europe, USA or Japan or elsewhere. My boss is in Europe.

Oversea experience: You will get chance to visit Europe and USA unless you say no. Yes everything in this company is negotiable. The HR team here is very very helpful. They really take each employee as the company's asset. I can feel the difference between the HR team here with the one in my previous company which is also a MNC.

Relocation to USA: Very high chance as in just a few months we have three colleagues from the KL office chose to relocate to Phoenix, USA.

Language: This is not a place for people who loves English very very much or people who "mengagung-agungkan English". You can freely use "lah lor leh" and commit as many grammar mistakes as you can because our Angmos(White) Americans colleagues are able to understand Manglish. To them the real problem only comes when they're trying to understand what does a Japanese say in English. Anyway please don't say "I Think" too much as they will think that you really "think" only.

Work from home: Usually people get to WFH once in a month. It could be more but subject to the agreement between you and your boss.

Career Growth: Maybe you will be stagnant at one position for many years. One thing good is the C-level will visit almost all sites throughout the whole year and that's the chance for you to make them remember your name if you really want to move up the ladder.

The following are the positions available:
Program Manager
Sr HRIS Analyst
Sr Programmer Analyst
Sales Manager (Png)
Analyst Programmer
IT Helpdesk Specialists (9 positions) (English + Mandarin OR Japanese OR Vietnamese)

Like my page and leave your email at the comment section if you are keen and I will ask for the JD from HR. Thank you.

星期六, 六月 20, 2015

廣告: 與美姐Anjoe Koh面對面时。。。



与美姐面对面,你能做什么呢?

凡是女人都爱打扮,可是偏偏并非每个女人都知道如何正确的装扮自己。
 有些人,明明不适合传窄裙,却从来不知道自己不适合穿窄裙。当她悉心打扮後,发现到没人对她惊艳後,感到很不解很心酸。其实,有时只要她选对服装,往往就可以扭转乾坤,从平淡无奇的小女人变成气质高贵的大美女。

所以,对时尚的了解不深,就会出现以上的问题。

那你对时尚的了解有多深呢?
 
聚会当天,Anjoe会亲自为大家讲解,如何穿出自我,用正确的打扮方式来彰显自己的优点。Anjoe本身是选美冠军,经过不少严格的时尚培训,接触不少的时尚专家,一路走来,Anjoe本身已经成了时尚的活字典。她肯抽空与你分享这些宝贵之事,你,如果是女人,绝对要珍惜!

还有,如果你关心Anjoe的前程,想知道她是否会像2003年和2009年Astro国际华裔小姐冠军杨秀惠还是陈美豫般往香港主持界与电视台发展,还是会像2011年Astro国际华裔小姐冠军林家冰、殿军温慧茵、2012年冠军陈楚寰般在大马发展,最绝对不能错过这次的聚会。你可以了解到,当选为美姐後的出路有多广,还有一些选美的内幕等等。

Anjoe越来越红,越来越忙了!以後要找她都难啊!你千万要抓着这次的机会哦!

请请请你尽快联系 Evonne Kho 0189033956(只收电话和短讯SMS)。

主办者会当场向出席者收费作为Anjoe礼物的费用。

日期: 28/06/2015
时间: 6:00 PM
收费: RM30
地点:  
Sweet Hut

B-27-G, Jalan C180/1, Dataran C180, Batu Cheras, Selangor
43200 Cheras

星期三, 六月 17, 2015

雜志《品牌與連鎖》作品: 馬來西亞博彩業三大品牌

马来西亚虽以穆斯林国民为多数,但由于建国领袖决定以英殖民威敏寺制度来执政,加上非穆斯林人数其实也不微,所以大马算是很世俗的国家,不会太过强调伊斯兰化。

大马首任首相成长于皇室之家,自小受英国教育熏陶,作风很英国化。当时,国内宗教氛围尚未浓,马来文版圣经也没被禁。这位首相破天荒发了国内唯一一张赌场执照给云顶高原集团老板-已故林梧桐先生,间接令这位大马一代赌场大亨发迹,也令政府的税收暴增,那笔数目在尚无石油收入的日子,可是举足轻重。政府因云顶赌牌而食髓知味,接着发出一张又一张的测字博彩执照,继续靠博彩税来填充国库,“利益人民”。单是从多多哪里抽到的税,每年就有整四五亿。

也因此,大马国民赌客非常幸运,他们的赌博选择众多,除了上云顶高原赌场外,不能上山时也可买万字过过瘾,只差没法天天赌。非穆斯林为之疯狂,一些穆斯林也为之着迷(国内有穆斯林买万字可非鲜听到的事)。赌客得到娱乐,博彩公司也赚不停,然后政府继续抽那8%的彩池税,皆大欢喜。

马来西亚共有三个测字博彩品牌,分别为万能、多多、与大马彩。其实东马另有沙拉越马会、万利和山打根马会,但他们的业务只集中于东马,所以不为半岛民众所熟悉。这些万字博彩执照也是由首任首相阿都拉曼所颁发。数十年下来,国内几乎每一个大街小巷都可见到三大测字博彩公司的招牌。不过,一般人士要开分行,就须从财政部手上拿到“万字连锁店”执照,而这申请过程还真的难如登天,手续重重,难度堪比华裔从国家石油公司处拿到汽油零售站执照。

市面上还有许许多多无牌经营的大小万字博彩“公司”,他们以更佳的赔率,广流行于民间。由于开采成绩是跟着有牌的公司,这些无牌万字博彩业经营者可说是在经营着无本生意。据说还夺走了三大正牌万字博彩公司的市场。所以,三大正牌都不把持牌的对方为最主要对手,反而是地下万字厂才是他们的眼中钉。

万能
万能是国内首家获颁四字(4D)万字博彩执照的公司,短短两年内就于西元1970年上市,目前的最大股东为马化控股。众所周知,马化控股是本国华人政治大党-马华公会所创办的投资臂膀,不过,经历八十年代党争后,马化控股的主人从马华公会转为传说中与安华关系密切的林添杰,直至安华上世纪98年失势后,林氏方退出马化控股。

身为高盈利的公司,万能自是与政治脱离不了关系。目前的公正党头号领袖,也就是前首相的安华的多年网球球伴纳拉卡鲁班曾任万能执行董事,其当时的老板正是林添杰。纳拉后来与安华闹翻后,站出来爆料说安华在任财政部长期间发出了不少万字分店执照,并曾收下万能马币六千万元的“礼物”!然后由纳拉本人亲自运送现款。不过爆料归爆料,证据拿不出来也是徒然。纳拉之后因此事被告诽谤,并被法庭判有罪。

万能的广告歌琅琅上口。以广府话唱出的歌词-“有万能,有惊喜,有万能,有惊喜,有快乐”直截了当,听一遍就可永记在心,是非常成功的广告歌。

万能的“产品”,也就是万字游戏多年来千篇一律,玩法没变过,就玩那四个号码,不像竞争对手有多种玩法。不过近年来该公司推出新产品,使玩家可以两种万字组合来赢得积宝。万能还为此新玩法注册版权,防止其对手抄袭。

万能此举并非纯为了应付合法的万字公司对手,反而是为了对付“偷吃”了不少市场份额的地下万字厂。万能的方法极为有效,积宝游戏成本过巨,依地下万字厂的有限财力,根本无法提供类似的游戏给赌客。这也是政府愿意批准此新玩法的原因。那些地下万字厂所赚得的赌钱在政府眼里,都是所漏掉的税收啊!尽管这些钱来源有违伊斯兰教义,但终归是钱,多多益善,政府高官不可能坐视不理。

多多博彩
多多目前是我国第一大测字博彩公司,有超过四成的市占率,稍微领先市占率三成多的万能。除了有普通的四字博彩,多多也有几种积宝游戏,是国内首家推出积宝游戏的万字博彩公司。积宝游戏奖金丰厚,也有多种玩法,如6/58,6/52,6/55等,这些多多的招牌游戏非常受赌客垂青。故论产品之“多样化”,多多远胜于对手数倍有余,难怪能成为万字博彩业龙头大哥。

说来难以置信,多多本为马来西亚政府的“生意”,创立自西元1969年。政府经营多多博彩的初衷为用所获盈利为推广运动并发展运动设施之经费,但这边厢博彩盈利不断,那边厢运动发展依旧缓慢如昔。

及后大马政府于八十年代受伊朗回教革命影响,也积极推广“伊斯兰化”,好为世俗政府增添“伊斯兰色彩”。恰巧伊斯兰教义严禁人赌博,政府不得不除多多博彩。一番转折后,西元1985年,时任首相马哈迪最终决定把多多博彩售给当时年级轻轻的商界初生之犊陈志远先生。陈志远得到了这只生金蛋的鹅后,财富也随着年份越积越多,日后更成为国内数一数二的大亨。

多多老板陈志远一度也曾入主万能,众人都议论纷纷,以为陈志远胃口大增,不满足于成功多多而已,想要独霸两张万字博彩赌牌,成为名副其实的“赌霸”。但没多久,陈先生就把手上万能股权放掉,大家方恍然大悟,这只是陈志远一贯的秉持的宗旨,即“什么都能卖”,手上任何资产一旦有好价,陈志远就毫不迟疑脱售之,换取暴利。其对数码网络如此,其对万能亦是如此,手法如出一辙。

多多博彩虽没像万能般在媒体上大作广告,但其市场团队也创造了一个不错的口号,为“追追追,追之也”。初见之者未必能想到此古雅口号竟为万字博彩品牌口号。

大马彩
大马彩的主人曾经是大名鼎鼎的我国印裔大富豪-阿南达克里斯南,可见阿南达实在厉害找“现金机器”,他所掌控的明讯、寰宇、大马彩等品牌皆是一等一的好马。“大马彩”也使阿南达创下“大马记录”,成为首个获颁博彩执照的非华裔。不过,大马彩是最迟拿到积宝游戏执照的公司,比起其他两家对手,迟了数十载,失去了不少先机,惟也足以使阿南达财富蒸蒸日上,阿南达日后能成为超级大富豪,源自大马彩的收入肯定是一大原因。

数年前,云顶集团的林国泰,突然与国内一批著名华商组成14人财团,向阿南达献议购买其通过“丹绒”母公司所控制的大马彩。当时大马彩测字博彩业务赚钱,惟尚有赛马场业务亏损连连,因此阿南达也乐于脱售之。据林氏说,华商商团收购大马彩后,会将该公司的盈利拨入“公益金”,用来为国内华文学府如华文小学和华文独立中学,及淡米尔小学的建设与发展买单,“帮助政府减少教育拨款负担”,也算是一门善举。不仅如此,该基金也将被用来提升教学水准。此事当年还由首相纳吉所大力支持。当然,这种以赌养校的策略,有些人无所谓,许多人还是觉得不妥当。

大马彩品牌标志形像鲜明,就是一匹正跑着的马,标志为三大测字博彩公司之最鲜明,故大马彩没有何特别的口号或歌曲,显得有点低调。论投注店,大马彩其实及不上多多及万能,因此大马彩则靠核心产品-万字游戏来抢客户。大马彩供其赌客玩三个号码游戏,这是其对手所没有或不愿推出的产品,因为“三个字”较易命中,赌客也比较容易赢,代表公司须随时准备现金为赌客奖金。当然,既然比较容易赢,自然而然赔率也不及四字博彩游戏。大马彩还设计出1+3D,即买三个号码,再加上第四个号码,若四个号码全中,就赢得更多的奖金。

星期二, 六月 16, 2015

The True Form of Fasting



Here is how fasting works: 

When God tells you to stop eating, you will know its a message from God. There is no doubt at all. The message is very very clear. 

Throughout the fasting process, you will not feel hungry. You will not suffer at all because you don't feel hungry or feel uncomfortable. This is only when you fast according to God's order. 

When do you break? Very easy, either you receive God's order, or you start eating when you start feeling hungry again. Yes it is that simple, because eating when hungry is the the natural way. God will never not mean to make us suffer. God will never want us to go against the nature, for nature laws are God's creation. 
 

Wrong way of fasting is, you intentionally get into standby mode before fasting or before breaking. Stop doing that, because once u start doing that, you are not fasting for God, you think about your interest. Your intention to fast hence becomes impure. 

In the true way of fasting, there is no room for preparedness or readiness. You fast immediately when you are being ordered by God to fast. This form is the Total Surrender to God and yes this form is the PUREST form of you.

星期一, 六月 15, 2015

廣告: 与美姐共聚!





你想要与Astro国际华裔小姐冠军兼国际中华小姐非常非常近距离的接触吗?

我友人举办了一场“与美姐共聚”的聚会,以庆祝美姐得到2014年Astro国际华裔小姐冠军!

这位美姐是谁呢?对了,就是Anjoe Koh 许愫恩!Anjoe如今也是Astro艺人哦!她曾主持Astro2015年的倒数活动。

这个是难得的机会。我友人可花了不少心思才争取到Anjoe抽时间出席这场聚会。

由于场地所限和安全因素,所以名额有限。因此,如果你想在这场聚会与美姐面对面交谈,或跟美姐拍照,等等等,请请请你尽快联系 Evonne Kho 0189033956(只收电话和短讯SMS)。

主办者会向出席者收费作为Anjoe礼物的费用。

日期: 28/06/2015
时间: 6:00 PM
收费: RM30
地点:  
Sweet Hut
B-27-G, Jalan C180/1, Dataran C180, Batu Cheras, Selangor
43200 Cheras

星期六, 六月 13, 2015

淺談中國土豪現象與儒家對策



我特从书里抽出这段与众分享。书尚未写毕,希望八月可完稿,十月出版。为我加油吧!

所分享之文字如下:

中国自改革开放以来,经济突飞猛进,“生下”为数众多的“土豪”,“先让部分人富起来”的策略圆满完成,剩下的是让所有人富起来。土豪是富人,不过并非每位富人都是土豪。土豪是带有“乡土”味的富人。所谓的“乡土味”其实主要指的还是土豪们一身的乡下习惯,时而随地吐痰,时而大声喧哗,时而凭有钱而不愿排队,时而挥金如土。土豪活在消费至上的资本主义社会,是可以活得非常好非常舒服的,不过土豪与传统的富人相比,两者同样有钱,但还是有些“地位不均等”。有些富人如乔布斯和比尔盖茨或李嘉诚等往往是普罗大众的“偶像”,许多杂志书本都很喜欢访问研究这些富人,而人人也喜欢向他们学习致富秘诀。所以,他们不仅富有,还获得多人的尊重。至于土豪虽富,却因一身的乡土习惯而赢不到尊重,国际公民社会的人往往对其自持有钱而不遵守公民秩序而看不过眼,故有人以土豪称之,来区别其他比较有“现代”涵养的富人。

发生这种事,有时这是大环境的影响,非土豪之罪。要知道中国在改革开放之前,曾经历了十年文化大革命,一个人活在文化大革命时期,本来一切身心都奉献给了文化大革命的“正确价值观”,但突然间政府说要“改革开放”,引进资本主义世界来的资金,政策突然一百八十度转换,踏上资本主义的路,价值观彻彻底底有别于文化大革命时期。文化大革命时期革走了传统价值观的命,所以踏入改革开放时期的中国人,根本已经是价值观混乱,而可说是在身处摸索期,尽力保护自己的利益,免为他人所欺负。

所以,复兴儒家的好处,在于为大家带来的“礼”。你我无须学习所谓的公民社会规范。因为孔子最最最推崇的礼已经很足够应付现代城市公民社会所需了。前人唾弃礼的核心精神,使礼变成一条条的教条,丧事生气与活力,最后整个社会因活在恐惧中,渐渐堕落,乃至不堪抵抗西方资本主义文明的魔力。你我要做的就是避免步上前人后尘。

星期五, 六月 12, 2015

一理通萬理、一教通萬教



今夜听印度教师尊开示,竟令我在儒学上有所领悟,真是“一理通万里、一教通万教”。亦是孔圣所谓的“吾道一以贯之”。

兼得以从中获得灵感,写入我的书内,非常开心。

我还问师尊两个藏在心中数年却一直解不通的敏感问题:

一)旧约圣经里的上帝为何不仁慈,因人拜金牛而震怒。要如何看待。

二)穆圣为何下令人摧毁天房内的偶像。

我曾往基督教和回教读物视频等寻找这两个问题的答案,却无法令我满意。

师尊所给的答案不仅令我疑惑全消,其答案还完全无损这两教的声誉。

非常感恩。

我只能说,解经典要解得准,一定要用心来解。

感谢上天给予我这经验。

Malaysian in Globalization Era



Today one of my teammate in Europe was making fun of me. He's asking if I am robot or some kind of AI product. We've never really met each other face to face. I've been asked a few times to meet my teammates in Europe but I have some personal constraints so I couldn't go. So far all communications between us are done via instant messaging, phone & email.

Anyway, since I'm the only one from the team who works in Asian time zone, to me going to office is just waste of petrol and commute time as I rarely open my mouth in office. 

Globalization era. Jobs can be done everywhere. Companies can deploy their workforces at any corner in the world. Good news is we as employee have more choices in terms of job opportunities, bad news is we can also lose our jobs at any time. So before we master the techniques to get help from the Supreme One, I'll suggest that we must cultivate the habit of saving.
We still have advantages though: languages and time zone.

Divine Message on 11th June 2015 - Spritiual Evolution


When we were very very young, we don't really know if we are praying or not. And when we've grown up we don't even remember that praying moment because we are unsure if we were really praying.

As we grow older, we start to have needs and wants. And usually we pray to God for our "wants".

As we continue praying for our wants, we will eventually come to a stage where we'd like to express our gratitude to God for giving what we want. So in this case we will have idols as "target" for us to offer physical items such as flowers and fruits and etc to express our gratitude. At this stage still we will continue to pray with "wants" in our mind.

Until one day we pray to God without any want, at that moment we are already deeply connected with God. It's a state of Total Surrender. At that time we don't really need idols anymore. We don't even need to pray physically because we are already praying all the time since we are deeply connected with God.

This is the process of Spiritual Evolution.

Different people go through different stages of spiritual evolution. Some takes longer time, some takes lesser time. It is sheer ignorance that we think we are more spiritually evolved than another guy. As spiritual evolution sometimes could happen overnight.

星期三, 六月 10, 2015

萬達酒店鉆苑中餐廳 Zuan Yuan @ One World Hotel

我办公室位于万达酒店隔壁。我如果是泊在万达广场内,上下班都会取道该酒店来回办公室,而且还时常经过钻苑­酒家。




某次马来西亚讲华语运 动想要办执委新年聚会,执委四处寻找有私人房间的中餐馆,有这种"设备"的中餐馆非常­难找,最终找到一家,即钻苑也。我身为副主席,又跟钻苑近在咫尺, 所以也有去钻苑询问一番。钻苑的私人套房­设备实在难得,而且只须预订就可以了,并且无须为房间付费,订房也不以花费价格来为条件。

地点方面,万达商场乃国内数一数二的大型商场,广为人知,所座落的地点交通便利,驱车前来非常方便。当然,­那些在吉隆坡东边地区的人要驾车前来此处确实距离颇远。一旦尚在建设中的轻快铁站准备就绪可载送人后,那交­通会更加方便了。

就 如其他酒店一样,钻苑是万达酒店里的唯一中餐馆,而且也是清真的。这在马来西亚很正常,目前国内许多酒店­的中餐馆都已"清真化"了。可是,钻苑的菜肴还 是色香味齐全,完全不受清不清真影响。我曾吃过数间酒店的中­餐馆,也是清真菜肴,味道真的比钻苑差得远。在钻苑无论是烤鸡也好、各种菜蔬也好,都吃得出 厨师的用心。

在钻苑内的三小时半,服务生不时都来房看看我们有什么需要,一面也为食客添茶水,服务可谓非常周到。而且,­房内似乎有静音效果,我们在厢房内讨论东西,声音都未传出外头。而外头的嘈杂声也没干扰到房内众人。

钻苑食物好吃,服务又周到,价钱应该不菲吧?又不会。我们八人点了六道菜,才共花费四百多元左右,以豪华级­酒店中餐馆又订房间而言,已不算贵了。当然,如果拿钻苑所介绍的新年套餐,共八样菜,价格大概是整千元,由­于都是比较珍贵的食材,也不算太贵。

星期一, 六月 08, 2015

太平拉律馬登小販中心炒魚丸粿條麵 Fried Fishball KueyTeowMee @ Larut Matang Hawker Center Taiping

余上怡保,趁机再上太平走走,先去著名的太平湖看看。日正当中,热气腾腾,大树、青草和湖水降不了暑气。

太平湖适合喜欢大自然的人,不适合爱热闹爱人潮的人。有家庭者可考虑来此处野餐。不过最好是逢傍晚才来,比较没那么热。

看完太平湖,饥肠辘辘,去拉律马登小贩中心用膳。

这是余第二回来此处享用美食。第一次来时是晚间,许多档包括著名的63号已休息,应该是只做午市。

这回是午间,全部档都有开,人潮好多。太平街上静静的,而此处简直是另一个世界。仿佛所有人都挤到这里来了。

找到了63号,在附近坐下,点了鱼丸炒粿条。排队打包的人好多。我还真怕帮我点菜的那人忘了我的那份。後来发现到他虽没写下来,但是他另有方法记,就是事先备好辣椒碟。厉害!

其实,鱼丸炒粿条麵要真说起来也没什么特别。就是有鱼丸和叉烧作佐料。不过粿条不像是炒,反而像干捞多点,但我确实看到老板是用炒的方式来煮粿条。粿条看起来油得发亮,可能是放了许多油去炒吧?

鱼丸炒粿条麵吃起来还是觉得很不错。香味四溢,可能有加入猪油吧!难怪如此出名。

隔几档的65号档口也很闻名。卖的都是饮料。我从智能手机某软件得知该档以“虎加狮”闻名,就以闽南语问档主何谓“虎加狮”。档主没直接回答,只说包好喝!

喝了。果然不错。原来是很普遍的NESLO而已,不过真的泡得很浓厚很好喝。

虎代表雀巢咖啡,狮代表著名巧克力饮料美禄(MILO)。不知哪个家伙想出了“虎加狮”这个名堂。就像新山和新加坡人称美禄为“踢球”一样。非常有趣。








星期四, 六月 04, 2015

廣告: 華孝英雄(華Xiao英雄)的笑點

很快的,这套戏今天就在本地各院线上映了。

这戏有许多好笑的环节,都是靠关德辉的那张严肃脸来支撑着,有冷笑话的味道。

至于类似其他笑戏的胡闹情节,也是有,不过我感觉不会太过严重。

不过,真的要称赞朱咪咪这位老戏骨。她一出现,这套戏就得到更多的笑声。

关德辉先生要以搞笑的方式来上演华校的故事,真的不简单。因为华校课题是很严肃的课题。







星期日, 五月 31, 2015

廣告: 華孝英雄(或華Xiao英雄)首映禮

昨夜有幸受邀出席华孝英雄首映礼。在首映礼,可与电影金主握手拍照,可近距离与演员交流,可享用当局准备的点心,然後入场与众演员看完整套影片。费用全免,由电影金主帮你付。真的很感恩。因为金主未必能赚得回投资在电影的那笔钱。

当夜坐在我隔壁的竟然是那位本地电影《一路有僵尸》演则优则导的“未来世界明星”Jaguar Lim。他很专心的看完整套《华孝英雄》,从他的表情看不出他是喜欢还是不喜欢这套影片。

这部戏到底拍得如何?以我看电影多年的经验而言,不是非常出色,也不是大烂片,还是可以一看。关德辉先生花了三年时间筹备这部电影。所以买票观看,是看关先生的三年心血,非常值得。

以下是首映礼当晚的照片。








星期四, 五月 28, 2015

My First English Poem



When I see Sufi, I see Zen
When I see Zen, I see the Presence
When I embrace the Presence
I see no religion
What do I see?
I only see God


星期三, 五月 27, 2015

一身教服来授課



数年前,我获派往马六甲首长署做事。当时获安排坐在某培训室内工作,大家在上课,我在后方忙我的事,偶尔会听听大家究竟在上什么课。

一日,某高廋友族进入培训室。他头顶白帽,身著长袍,一副虔诚宗教师模样,一时令人搞不清楚状况,心想他应是来教宗教。

只见他缓缓走向培训室前方,立于白板前,侃侃而谈,满口尽是电脑技术词汇,方知非宗教师,而是电脑专业培训师也。

星期二, 五月 26, 2015

如此就是虔誠信教?



某华裔流动小贩向来在邻镇卖包点和豆浆。近来也来到此地做生意。才经营两三日,市议会和宗教局就派员来,谓此地以穆斯林为众,故此地禁卖一切非清真食物。 该小贩为此因而无端接罚单。

原来穆斯林为众,就可剥夺非穆斯林享用非清真食品的饮食权。

此等人学宗教,越学越昏沉,穆圣回生,必拿戒尺敲醒之。这尚为小 事,若是大事如回教法等,由此等人来负责执法,非穆斯林岂不歹哉?

星期一, 五月 25, 2015

Fahaman Yang Salah Tentang Atheist

Saya mendapati bahawa sesetengah orang tidak berapa faham apa maksud sebanar Atheist. Mereka anggap orang yang tidak suka/percaya kepada agama adalah golongan Atheist. Fahaman ini adalah tidak betul.

Atheist pun ada kepercayaan. Kepercayaan mereka adalah Evolution, Science dan Tiada Tuhan.

Terdapat juga orang yang mempercayai kepada Tuhan dan Nabi-Nabi. Mereka berpendapat bahawa agama itu ciptaan pengikut Nabi-Nabi demi kepentingan mereka sendiri. Kadang kala mereka saja mahukan kuasa. Nabi-nabi saja ingin menunjuk jalan ke kebenaran tetapi Nabi-nabi tidak pernah hendak mencipta agama yang bersifat Institutional. Kita tidak sepatutnya memanggil orang seperti ini sebagai Atheist. Mereka masih percaya kepada Tuhan.


舊街場白咖啡 Old Town White Coffee @ BU8





旧街场白咖啡售卖的都是经典的本地食物,如烤面包、椰浆饭等等。

论食物,旧街场白咖啡肯定是不错。至于价格,自然会比街边所售卖的贵。旧街场白咖啡卖的可说都是环境。与其­他类似的新式咖啡店比较,旧街场咖啡店的环境实在算是很高贵了。

为旧街场白咖啡店设计内部装潢的人看得出都很有功夫。论色彩,黄金色引人注目,而且非常高贵。然後每间旧街­场皆有挂上写着"旧街场"的牌匾,而且还特地安装黄色灯光照射之,凸显该品牌。

这 间旧街场白咖啡更加特别。隔壁就是联昌银行了。周日午间,联昌银行的顾客到此处办事,若需要等候,可以在­旧街场白咖啡处坐下点一杯"白咖啡"配烤面包半 生熟鸡蛋来打发时间。或者可在办完事後先享受一下冰咖啡配暹­罗米粉等小食才去下一站。或者顾客若还未用正膳,可在这里点招牌的炸鸡椰浆饭等吃。

至 于我本人,则是在下班後来此处"休息"一番才回家。若是六点之前到达此处,还来得及点三点至六点才有的"­下午茶配套"。下午茶配套比正餐配套便宜多了, 区区四元就可吃到烤面包和咖啡乌。不过,旧街场时常更换配套­以给顾客耳目一新的感觉。所以每隔数月,我就发现配套内容和价格又不一样了。

至 于旧街场白咖啡的正餐,我最爱的还是海南鸡排饭。其海南鸡排做得实在很好,裹上了鸡蛋粉才炸,所以吃鸡排­时可吃到很香的炸鸡蛋粉。然後炸鸡派的酱料又做 得很香甜多汁,这酱料拿来送饭简直是一流。何况旧街场给的还­是油饭,很不错。同样十多元一餐,我宁愿吃这道海南鸡排饭多于吃炸鸡椰浆饭。当然,其炸鸡椰 浆饭不仅仅有炸­鸡而已,旧街场不是路边摊,不会吝啬提供慢慢的花生和江鱼仔等。

至于咖啡乌和白咖啡,旧街场可算是国内第一家推出白咖啡的新式咖啡店。其咖啡乌和白咖啡的品质实在一流。喜­欢海南咖啡的人绝对不会对其咖啡失望。喜欢欧美式花俏咖啡的人则另当别论了。

星期日, 五月 24, 2015

My thought on Brains v Brawn: Why UMNO can't match LKY



This is the original article.

And here is my response:

Lee Kuan Yew himself is an intellectial as well. Don't forget that he grad from Cambridge during 50s. Our past and current PM could not match him in terms of academic achievement. 

Lee's political ideology is the Confucius kind, to rule the country with Elites or scholars. (background: China is the earliest country that took public servants by public examination at multiple levels, as early as 500AC).

As for Lee, I guess he wanted to make himself as close to emperor as possible. In the end he did not. He is excellent and that's why abit arrogant.

星期五, 五月 22, 2015

強迫入教并無效



这两日上培训课。师为某已达耳顺之年的华裔女穆斯林。她本非穆斯林,因嫁马来人而入教。

两日来,她偶尔言及私事,透露爱好禅修的信息,还曾跟随某印度籍心灵导师作心灵之旅。

在本国,穆斯林修禅可被视为叛教之举,惟师之伴侣似乎对其修禅不甚在意。可见本国政府强迫婚姻改教,并无法使改教者成为真正穆斯林,信仰真主和穆圣之道,反倒令其徒有穆斯林之虚名而已矣。

New Generation of Modern Chinese Malaysian

I came across a Facebook post of a friend's friend as follows:

I lecture in different private colleges/universities that are predominantly run by Chinese and attend by Chinese. But in one such institution I have the privilege to teach a group of MARA scholars. This group of MARA students, many of them came from not so rich family and to be able to get scholarship to go to the US to further their studies is a great opportunity that they wouldn't have if they are left alone without any government assistance. 

Now I am not here to talk about NEP or Bumiputra rights or racial discrimination etc. What I want to point out is the attitude these MARA students have compare to the group of Chinese students who come from a wealthy background. These MARA students are serious with their studies because if they don't get the grades required, they will lose their scholarship. They are diligent, hardworking, attend my class regularly, and do their work without complaining. Because of their religious up bringing, they respect me as their lecturer and elder and they produce quality work. 
Come back to the Chinese students, because they don't really need to maintain a certain grade point average (their parents will be there to support them no matter what) plus growing up in a well to do family, they basically behave like the world has owe them everything. They complain just because the lecturer refuses to give them one extra mark for them to get an "A" (which they don't really deserve one), produce mediocre work, missing classes, and rude to lecturer (I guess may be their parents allow them to answer them back rudely).

I have two points here. Whatever the scholarship or financial assistance the government is giving to the Malays, they are generally (notice I say generally) given to well deserve Malay students. And it is a joy to have them in my class. 

As for the Chinese students in my class, many of them are good students and really enjoy having them in my class. 

But many of them are also spoiled to the bones. I don't blame them. I blame it on their parents. I have no idea why modern Malaysian Chinese parents have totally lost control of their children. They are so afraid of offending their children and saying "no" or "cannot" is something absolutely haram in their children upbringing. And their children can do no wrong; it is the lecturer or the college is the one who is in the wrong, abusing their children. After all, they pay to come to the institution.
My colleague and I were discussing the above issue this morning. I told her that I am concerned because we are growing old. One day, these students with this kind of attitude will take over the country and I wonder I will be taken care of at my old age...but I do see rays of hope in our MARA scholars...Insy-Allah.
My opinion is as follows:

Religious upbringing makes the difference. Many modern Chinese families don't really stress much on religion teachings. 

Ancient Chinese were very well mannered due to strong Confucianism background but modern Chinese completely abandoned Confucianism(since early twentieth century) and they have nothing(or money) to fill in the blank and here's the result.

If you study the Peranakan, you'll find Peranakan are generally very well mannered because they still retain some of Confucianism rituals and rites.

星期三, 五月 20, 2015

廣告: 潮吹 Squirt



男人射精,女人潮吹。

那日用我之前所写的方法(看这里),由于够久,弄到伴侣潮吹了。

就是突然感觉有大量液体自伴侣下体射出,弄得我下半身粘粘的。

完事后,才发现是潮吹。

Female also ejaculates, the term is Squirt. One recent night while I was fucking for long suddenly my partner squirted. Please refer to my technique here.